In the run-up to Mother's Day, we took to the streets of the city to ask mothers a simple question: What’s the one thing you truly want? What followed was a string of heartfelt, sometimes humorous, and often tear-jerking answers that gave us a glimpse into the depth of a mother’s love.
Why We Took To The Streets
Every year, Mother’s Day becomes just another post or packaged celebration, accompanied by last-minute flower orders and sentimental ads. We wanted to go beyond the surface. We wanted to hear it straight from mums themselves- across age groups, backgrounds, and all walks of life- young ones juggling toddlers and to-do lists, elderly mothers who now wait for occasional phone calls, and everyone in between. What does an Indian mother really hope for herself? So, with a mic and a curious heart, we set out across the city to find out.
The Responses Were As Varied As They Were Beautiful
From the young mums balancing their children’s tightly held fists and snack bags at the market, to working grandmothers from the Koli community at Matunga Fish market on a busy summer afternoon. Some said they'd love a holiday with their children- a chill day around a beach. One joked, “I want them to grow up a little sooner, so they quarrelled less,” while another mum said, “I wish my kids were younger, so we could bring them with us to run errands anytime we wished.”
One Unanimous Selfless Thread- Love for Their Children
But amidst all the responses, one thing was loud, clear and common- every mum, without exception, wanted their children to be happy. “I don’t want anything for myself, I have my children, if they’re happy, I’m happy,” one mother said simply. Another softly added, “That’s all I pray for every day, nothing else matters.” Some shared their dreams of seeing their daughters grow confident, their sons live without stress, and their children, wherever they are, feel supported and loved.
This simple exercise reminded us of something we often forget: mothers don’t need grand gestures. What they truly long for is to know their children are safe, healthy, and happy. It doesn’t need wrapping paper or a fancy bow. So, if you’re wondering what to give your mum this Mother’s Day, maybe start with this: tell her you’re doing okay. Sit with her for a few quiet minutes. Call her without an agenda. That alone, above all else, seems to be the gift that keeps her heart full.
To all mums watching, we, at Her Circle, wish you a very happy and fulfilling Mother’s Day!