Do you feel those butterflies in your stomach when he looks at you? Do you have to calm your racing heart every you get a whiff of his perfume? Yes, you’re in a new relationship, and nothing can be quite as exciting as young love. And while the honeymoon period can last for just a while, it is love that keeps the bonds of unity strong and lasting.
Now, while love is a word you may have often heard (or used), you’ve always wondered whether it was indeed love that you felt your previous relationship? But, things somehow feel different with this one, don’t they? If you’re wondering whether what you’re experiencing could in fact, be love, these undeniable signs are a sure indication:
You don’t constantly check your phone: It’s been a while since you texted your SO, and unlike in the past, with him/her, you don’t feel the need to check whether they’re online but not responding to you. You understand that they may be busy, and will reply when they can.
You feel confident about sharing more of yourself: More often than not, opening up and being vulnerable in front of another person can seem daunting, particularly if you have a history of heartache. However, if you feel safe and comfortable to open up and become vulnerable, it’s a sign that you have started to trust your SO. And trust is a clear indicator of love.
Every little thing reminds you of them: As sappy as it may sound, you can’t help but be reminded of your partner. Whether it’s a cookie your order because you know they’ll like it, or if you’re passing a road that you once walked down together, your mind is constantly switching gears between them and the activity at hand. A great indicator is your friends groaning because they’re probably tired of hearing about your partner.
They’re annoying, but completely adorable: Whether it’s the way they play with your hair, or the stupid jokes they crack, you just cannot get enough of them. And nobody else may find their stories interesting but you can hear them over and over, and still feel like you’ve heard it for the first time—yes, you’re definitely head over heels. You’ve got it bad, and that’s a good thing!
You’re willing to make sacrifices for them: You remember that last KitKat bar you were hiding away from family (or roommates) for a rainy day? If you’re willing to share that bar with your SO, you’re definitely in too deep. You could also be willing to stay up late to nurture them when they’re sick, or see to their countless needs (since most men tend to be big babies when they’re sick). If you find yourself making decisions that have your partner’s interest in mind, you’re habituating to them and making room for them in your life. And that’s undeniably a big sign that you’re in love.